Thursday, April 09, 2009

The hardest part..

I think the hardest part about being in a relationship with someone that lives an hour and a half away is the fact that you can't see him when you want to..

Granted.. the distance is good.. it gives us perspective and prevents us from getting tired of each other too fast..

This distance prevents us from over-exposing ourselves to each other..

But when you want him around.. just for a simple hug.. or for a quick dinner.. or just to be around to tell him about your day.. it's kinda difficult..

The cell phone and text messages become your best friend and most reliable liason between the two of you.

It's hard.. but I know that if we keep working on it.. things will change.. and we will eventually be close enough to each other to have those quick dinners.. or those moments when you just want to be next to each other..

But then.. you'll also get those moments when you wish he did live an hour and a half way from you again.. hahaha.. I doubt it..

This distance will hopefully allow us to appreciate what we have when we are together and will allow us to cherish the time we will have together always..

If only it will come sooner than later.. :-)

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